Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die -Carrie Fisher.
We have all gone through disappointments in life that have turned us into bitter, judgmental and resentful people without feeling conscious about it. But the truth is that we are wasting our time and accelerating the process of aging, because when we don't forgive people, we are actually hurting ourselves. We should learn how to overcome such circumstances no matter how hard they get, learn which ones are trustworthy and those who are not, and choose wisely who we tell our secrets and sorrows to; because most people's purpose is not listening to help us, but to have a topic to gossip about.
From my self experience, I have learned that we can benefit a lot from those who hurt us, actually we can learn what it feels like to get betrayed and disappointed, and avoid making the same mistake with others, which will consequently lead to the loss of our beloved ones.
This quote is very meaningful; thinking that by developing bad feelings could affect those around us, when honestly such feelings destroy us instead.
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